Family Star

Question 1/42

Child Hassle

You are continually clearing up messes of toys or food

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 2/42

Child Hassle

You are being nagged, whined at, complained to.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 3/42

Child Hassle

There are mealtime difficulties (picky eaters, complaining etc.).

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 4/42

Child Hassle

The kids don't listen - won't do what they are asked without being nagged.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 5/42

Child Hassle

Babysitters are difficult to find.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 6/42

Child Hassle

The kids schedules (like preschool or other activities) interfere with meeting your own household needs.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 7/42

Child Hassle

Sibling arguments or fights require a "referee".

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 8/42

Child Hassle

The kids demand that you entertain or play with them.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 9/42

Child Hassle

The kids resist or struggle with you over bedtime.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 10/42

Child Hassle

The kids are constantly under foot, interfering with other chores.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 11/42

Child Hassle

You need to keep a constant eye on where the kids are and what they are doing.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 12/42

Child Hassle

The kids interrupt adult conversations or interactions.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 13/42

Child Hassle

You have to change your plans because of an unpredicted child need.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 14/42

Child Hassle

The kids get dirty several times a day requiring a change of clothes.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 15/42

Child Hassle

You have difficulties getting privacy (e.g. in the bathroom).

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 16/42

Child Hassle

The kids are hard to manage in public (e.g. supermarket shopping centre, restaurant).

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 17/42

Child Hassle

Difficulties in getting kids ready for outings and leaving on time.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 18/42

Child Hassle

Difficulties in leaving kids for a night out or at school or childcare.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 19/42

Child Hassle

The kids have difficulties with friends (e.g. fighting, trouble getting along or no friends).

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 20/42

Child Hassle

You have to run errands to meet kids' needs.

Select any single option

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

A lot

Constantly

Question 21/42

Child Temper

My child is angry and resentful

Select any single option

Not true

Somewhat

True

Certainly true

Question 22/42

Child Temper

My child loses their temper.

Select any single option

Not true

Somewhat

True

Certainly true

Question 23/42

Child Temper

My child blames others for his or her mistakes or misbehaviour.

Select any single option

Not true

Somewhat

True

Certainly true

Question 24/42

Child Temper

My child argues with adults.

Select any single option

Not true

Somewhat

True

Certainly true

Question 25/42

Child Temper

My child actively defies or refuses to do what they are asked or stick to rules.

Select any single option

Not true

Somewhat

True

Certainly true

Question 26/42

Child Temper

My child deliberately annoys people.

Select any single option

Not true

Somewhat

True

Certainly true

Question 27/42

Child Temper

My child is spiteful or unkind.

Select any single option

Not true

Somewhat

True

Certainly true

Question 28/42

Child Temper

My child is touchy or easily annoyed by others.

Select any single option

Not true

Somewhat

True

Certainly true

Question 29/42

My Confidence as a parent

Even though I may not always manage it, I know what I need to do with my child

Select any single option

Strongly disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly agree

Question 30/42

My Confidence as a parent

I am able to do the things that will improve my child's behaviour

Select any single option

Strongly disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly agree

Question 31/42

My Confidence as a parent

I can make an important difference to my child

Select any single option

Strongly disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly agree

Question 32/42

My Confidence as a parent

In most situations I know what I should do to ensure my child behaves

Select any single option

Strongly disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly agree

Question 33/42

My Confidence as a parent

The things I do make a difference to my child's behaviour

Select any single option

Strongly disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly agree

Question 34/42

My Wellbeing

I've been feeling optimistic about the future

Select any single option

None of the time

Rarely

Some of the time

Often

All of the time

Question 35/42

My Wellbeing

I've been feeling useful

Select any single option

None of the time

Rarely

Some of the time

Often

All of the time

Question 36/42

My Wellbeing

I've been feeling relaxed

Select any single option

None of the time

Rarely

Some of the time

Often

All of the time

Question 37/42

My Wellbeing

I've been dealing with problems well

Select any single option

None of the time

Rarely

Some of the time

Often

All of the time

Question 38/42

My Wellbeing

I've been thinking clearly

Select any single option

None of the time

Rarely

Some of the time

Often

All of the time

Question 39/42

My Wellbeing

I've been feeling close to other people

Select any single option

None of the time

Rarely

Some of the time

Often

All of the time

Question 40/42

My Wellbeing

I've been able to make up my own mind about things

Select any single option

None of the time

Rarely

Some of the time

Often

All of the time

Question 41/42

Concerns about my child

Please select any two Concerns about your child

Select two options

Disobedience and aggression

Worries, lacking confidence

Irritable, highly sensitive

Impulsive, distractible (or lacking focus instead of distractable?)

Relationships (including being bullied)

Learning and homework

Eating, sleeping, bedwetting

Other

Question 42/42

My parenting

Chose two areas where you would like to improve your parenting

Select two options

Staying calm

Being positive/involved

Consistent boundaries

feeling overwhelmed

Understanding my child

Looking after myself

Confidence as a parent

Others

Family Star Quiz

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Welcome to the Family Style Quiz

You are continually clearing up messes of toys or food

You are being nagged, whined at, complained to.

There are mealtime difficulties (picky eaters, complaining etc.).

The kids don't listen - won't do what they are asked without being nagged.

Babysitters are difficult to find.

The kids schedules (like preschool or other activities) interfere with meeting your own household needs.

Sibling arguments or fights require a "referee".

The kids demand that you entertain or play with them.

The kids resist or struggle with you over bedtime.

The kids are constantly under foot, interfering with other chores.

You need to keep a constant eye on where the kids are and what they are doing.

The kids interrupt adult conversations or interactions.

You have to change your plans because of an unpredicted child need.

The kids get dirty several times a day requiring a change of clothes.

You have difficulties getting privacy (e.g. in the bathroom).

The kids are hard to manage in public (e.g. supermarket shopping centre, restaurant).

Difficulties in getting kids ready for outings and leaving on time.

Difficulties in leaving kids for a night out or at school or childcare.

The kids have difficulties with friends (e.g. fighting, trouble getting along or no friends).

You have to run errands to meet kids' needs.

My child is angry and resentful

My child loses their temper.

My child blames others for his or her mistakes or misbehaviour.

My child argues with adults.

My child actively defies or refuses to do what they are asked or stick to rules.

My child deliberately annoys people.

My child is spiteful or unkind.

My child is touchy or easily annoyed by others.

Even though I may not always manage it, I know what I need to do with my child

I am able to do the things that will improve my child's behaviour

I can make an important difference to my child

In most situations I know what I should do to ensure my child behaves

The things I do make a difference to my child's behaviour

I've been feeling optimistic about the future

I've been feeling useful

I've been feeling relaxed

I've been dealing with problems well

I've been thinking clearly

I've been feeling close to other people

I've been able to make up my own mind about things

Please select any two Concerns about your child

Chose two areas where you would like to improve your parenting

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