What did mum do differently this time?

She was imitating and praising.

How did he respond?

He responded positively and remained engaged in the activity. He was proud of what he was doing.

What did mum do differently this time?

repeated back what he was doing, and asked interested questions

How did he respond?

engaged

What did mum do differently this time?

Gave lots of encouragement and praise, plus her full attention.

How did he respond?

Really well. He was proud of his drawing.

What did mum do differently this time?

Let him lead. Praise him

How did he respond?

Concentrated and carried out his vision

What did mum do differently this time?

She was describing what he was drawing, encouraging him in his drawing, praising him as a boy himself, she was interested but did not comment. She let him control the situation.

How did he respond?

He was a lot more engaged and confident. Both of them were happier.

What did mum do differently this time?

Listened. Watched. Active listening - repeating back what he was doing. Child led.

How did he respond?

Loved it. Felt seen, listened to, affirmed.