I am generally warm and engaged when with my children

I am not very expressive on the whole

It is better to do messy play at school/ playgroup

I usually encourage creativity even when messy at home

I am not a very physical person

I like cuddling / physical contact with my children

Find yourself nagging and asking your child to do something lots of times

Expect to ask once or twice only

Rarely give praise and encouragement when with your child

Frequently give praise & encouragement when with your child

Try to give your undivided attention/play with your child for at least 10 minutes a day

Rarely have time to give your full attention and play

Have quite a lot of family rules

Have few family rules, if any

Assume they know you love them, (a bit reserved)

Often show warmth or tell your children you love them

Follow through if they don’t do as asked

Avoid confrontation if possible, even when they don’t do as asked

Change plans according to the children's wishes

Children should get on with things and muck in

Prefer to take charge

Prefer to go along with things

Family is a benign dictatorship

Family is a democracy